Archive for January, 2013


Letting Go Meditation

Last week, my daughter was really focused on wanting to speak with her father and tell him how she felt about things. … Keep going...

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How far we’ve come… a moment of gratitude

Sometimes I feel like my life is stuck…. stuck in narcissistic purgatory. 

However, there have been some really awesome things that have happened, and I think it’s good to take stock in them. … Keep going...

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Affirmations – to give you strength

A good friend of mine gave me a gift: 6 months of premium “Spotify”.  I’m in heaven.  Spotify is an app which streams music… any music you can imagine, it’s there to be played at the touch of a button. … Keep going...

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A Weekend of Crying: Refusing Visitation

My 8 year old daughter is having a tough time lately.  She was crying fiercely about having to go with her father on friday for the weekend. … Keep going...

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Whimsy

“A little nonsense now and then is relished by the wisest men.” Roald Dahl  

One of the principals of the Law of Abundance says that we attract what we focus on. … Keep going...

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A Compassionate Look at Personality Disorders

The daily bible app on my phone today reminded me of how God sees us all, even those who deal with a personality disorder.… Keep going...

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Hostile Agressive Parenting & Parental Alienation Syndrome

A few days ago, I received a couple of rather “trolling” blog comments.  At first, I figured I would ignore or delete them. … Keep going...

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Negotiating with a Narcissist / Personality Disordered, or just plain old “disordered” individual

There has been much debate in the past month about what our visitation schedule would be for 2013.  We don’t have clarity about the end of the year, and last year I did a switch so that I could manage to get memorial day, labor day and things would line up better for us with each holiday. … Keep going...

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Validation: My ex’s work performance review

When you have been dealing with a personality disordered individual, you’re likely to hear how you are completely off the mark about what you see, think or feel. … Keep going...

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A Win in Court for Child Support

First, I want to apologize.  Over the past month, I have been fairly quiet in posting as I took myself through a month of focusing on personal  healing (there’s always more to do!), and the stress of the holidays. … Keep going...

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